How to Get the Wedding Photos That Matter Most to You

Your wedding is an investment in so many ways.

You're not only investing money into it, but time and emotional energy. So, naturally, you want to consider your options when planning. And, not make choices you’ll later regret.

Including who you choose as your photographer.

Your wedding photos are some of the only mementos you'll have of your event, so each one of them should hold significance for you. 

But how does the photographer know which photos to capture? And, what if they don't capture what you expect to see?

When it comes down to it, the big question is, how can you ensure you get the photos that matter most? 

It certainly begins with choosing the right photographer - the one who matches your artistic style. Listens to your story. And, helps you feel comfortable in front of the camera. 

After you have that photographer by your side, it's all about the process. 

For example, mine includes listening and asking questions to know you and what's important to you. And so that I have a clear understanding of the kinds of photos you want so I can provide them to you. 

Let me guide you through a few more ways I make sure you get the wedding photos that matter most.

Listening to Your Story

We'll start things off with a chat where you'll tell me the details of your wedding. And, so that I can learn how to help you with your decision.

This won't be a quick phone call or a couple of email exchanges. Nope. This is a deep dive call (or in-person chat over tea, coffee, or a stiff cocktail) where I get to know you and your story. The details will help me uncover what's important to you. And how I can incorporate your personalities and love story into your photos. 

A few months before your wedding day, I'll also send you a questionnaire. Your answers will help me gain a greater understanding of who you two are and what you want captured on your wedding day. And, I'll keep an eye out for specific details and moments - not just the typical stuff. Because I want to make sure I capture and tell the whole story of your day.

You can read more about the questions I ask and other ways I go above and beyond as your photographer by reading my post on How Your Wedding Photographer Should Do More Than Take Photos​​​​​​​.

Gathering the Details

Throughout the planning process, I will be in touch to request essential information from you. Things like a list of family members for portraits. Current family dynamics so I don't accidentally call your step-dad your dad. Loved ones who have passed away that you would like to honor. And, without being too morbid, loved ones that might not be with us much longer - so that you'll have beautiful photos to remember their smile and spirit when they do pass.

Please share whatever and whoever matters most to you and your fiancé. The more info I have, the better.  

Once I have everything I need and the information is organized, I’ll help structure a flexible timeline that ensures ample time to celebrate your marriage. And, I’ll create a portraits list so that we can quickly and efficiently get through them.  

The point is to have all of the essential details beforehand so there won't be any standing around wondering what to do next or scrambling to finish portraits. Just a seamless, smooth process that allows you to get back to what matters most - while I discreetly capture photos.

Reviewing the Details

A few weeks before your wedding, we will schedule a final meeting so that I am armed and ready to document your big day the way you envision it.

I will confirm the details and address any lingering concerns you may have. I want to make 100% sure that I am fully prepared to tell your wedding day story the way you envision it. 

During our final meeting, we will go over the timeline and finalize the details. You'll walk away knowing that everything is taken care of. And, at the end of it all, you will have photos of everything and everyone that matters most to you. 

To get wedding photos you will cherish year after year, it all begins with finding a photographer you connect with. Someone who takes time to listen to your vision and what's important to you. 

I'm all about connection and getting to the heart of what matters to you. Only then can I offer you the exact photos you're looking for. If you care to chat about anything you've read here and see if we're a good fit for each other, get in touch.